Great articles from Psychology Today
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/couples-thrive/202306/are-you-easily-offended "What other people do and say is simply a result of their own personal experiences, assumptions, knowledge, and beliefs." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202305/3-reasons-why-having-good-friends-uplifts-your-romantic-life "The idea of being "someone’s everything" — i.e., sharing every interest, like, and dislike–is an outdated, overly romanticized, and unhealthy notion."